“AXIOMATIC” – defined by the Merriam Webster Dictionary as “Self-evident or unquestionable”.
Until now, private school and a post secondary education have just been “axiomatic” for us. No matter what, my husband & I would do everything in our power to send the kids to private school and then on to university. Adjustments can be made to vacations, housing, clothing, etc., but not to the kids’ educational plan.
As such, they are in an excellent private elementary school. High school plans are underway (but we don’t love our options) and we’re saving diligently for university.
We’re doing everything we “should” be doing and yet I feel like we are following a traditional path that is NOT going to lead to the desired outcome. For a while now, I’ve been asking my husband if we’re doing the right thing.
Now understand…I am not questioning the need for our children to be educated. That continues to be a necessity. Reading, writing and math will always be important. I would personally add critical thinking, analytical thinking and problem-solving skills to the must-have list.
What concerns me is my belief that the value-adding careers of the future will necessarily involve some form of creative or artistic ability, as everything else can be brought down to an algorithm or can be done by labourers in a cheaper market. I’m not sure that our schools- at all levels-are thinking about the practical application of the content and methodology of what’s being taught.
With the birth of my eldest, 10 years ago, I considered homeschooling as a possibility (variation from that “axiomatic” belief!). It was not a popular concept then, but as I tend to march to the beat of my own drum, I rather liked the thought of it. Hubby thought I was crazy and so in favour of my kids having a more “trusted” education, I caved to my fear of straying from the traditional path.
And that’s what’s holding me back now as well: FEAR. Fear that choosing a different path, we risk ruining their futures. FEAR that there is not really another defined path and so what is the alternative? FEAR that it’s up to us to create and build the alternative (although I’ll admit that this last possibility, daunting as it is, instills more inspiration in me than fear!)
Well…along comes Stop Stealing Dreams, an e-book by Seth Godin with where he addresses my concerns and delves way deeper into the root of the problem including the history of how & why schools started. He also talks about courses he’d like to see being taught. He talks about homework during the day and lectures at night. Why not??? I LOVE that.
By the way…he feels so strongly about this message that he is not selling the book but giving it away for FREE because his objective is to spread the message as widely as possible.
My kids are fortunate in that their current school offers Leadership Training, Empowerment and other such classes. The problem is that the government hands down a curriculum and there are not enough hours from 8:30-4:10 to get it all in. That’s why these classes are after-hours.
I’m not even going to get started about how kids don’t have time to be kids (for those of you who follow, you already know that our family is in a year of extracurricular sabbatical). I could go on about how we’re breeding another generation of multitasking overachievers who may be well-educated but don’t have a sincere appreciation of down-time and its impact on actually LIVING…but that’s for another post.
So where does it leave us now? Asking some very hard questions.
Before reading Seth Godin’s book I was already having crazy visions of building an alternative high school…He’s added some fuel to my fire.
Do I know where to begin? No.
Doesn’t the government have laws about this kind of stuff? I think so. Pretty sure you need a permit or something.
That said…this book was somewhat validating for me. I’m not the only one thinking what I’ve been thinking.
I could bring up passages for debate, but this post is already long enough. So here’s the deal:
Download it. Read it. Let me know what you think.
If you think it worthwhile, as I do, then SHARE it with your friends, family, schools and teachers.
In the coming weeks I will try to pick a particular theme or passage to really delve into, but this is step one.
Here’s the link: http://www.squidoo.com/stop-stealing-dreams You can read it on your Kindle, your iPad or your other choice device. Just read it. Even if it gets uncomfortable, which it can, because none of us wants to think that we’re doing the wrong thing…in particular when we think we’re doing the “right” thing.
Please let me know what you thought about it and what steps, if any, you intend to take to make a difference.
Wishing you a wonderful weekend,